This class starts with exploring common (consensual) non-consensual fantasies, why we have them, what they mean, and why turning these fantasies into reality can be difficult. Then we discuss and demonstrate how fantasies or parts thereof can be turned into hot and fun CNC scenes, how we find a top or bottom to do so, and how negotiation needs to differ from the typical BDSM negotiations to make this type of play safe. In this process, the fantasy gets deconstructed in a way that makes it easier to determine risk and we discuss how to adjust a scene to fit within the desired risk profile. Finally we provide and discuss examples of CNC play ranging from simple to extremely elaborate.
CNC, wrestling, overpowering, consent, ravishment, abduction, power-exchange, tickling
Lecture, Discussion, Demonstration
Intermediate, Advanced